Are you experiencing stress in your marriage? Is your marriage under attack? Is there frequent fight and argument at home? Is your home becoming a war zone rather peaceful haven? Are you thinking of divorce? Have you reached a breaking point in your relationship? Is your marriage in crisis? If you are one of the people who have been enduring your marriage, this message is for you. The chief marriage wrecker is Satan the devil.
He is the counterfeiter and a destroyer of marriage. One of the God institutions was the marriage between male and female. But what do you have today? Same sex marriages. Satan started to overturn marriage upside down from the Garden of Eden. He imposed Eve as the head of her husband rather than Adam as the head. How did he do this? By letting the woman to taste the fruit of knowledge of Good and bad before Adam does. So the women are wiser than men. They can plan your future of their prospective husband even before they meet the man. Again, Satan introduced violence and killing into the first family. Cain the first son killed Abel his brother. Violence and abuse is not new to the family. Marriage was founded on the principle of Theocracy. Democracy has replaced Theocracy. Paul Apostle says, “we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities and powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places”(Ephesian 6:12). Who are these? Who are the agents of the devil that Satan can use to destroy your marriage? These can be spiritual wife or spiritual husband. They can be your friends and relatives, such as evil in-laws and your own ignorance and pride.
The good new is, Jesus gave all the believers the Power that is greater than that of Satan, but you need activate this power before it can work for you. You Got the Power. Activate it to protect your Marriage.
The fact is Marriage is to be enjoyed and not to be endured.
My message to you is Protect Your Family from Marriage Wreckers.
Jesus promised all the believers that we would receive power when the Holy Spirit arrives upon us. (Act 1:8). All we need to do is to activate this power so that we can use it to protect ourselves and to protect our family from spiritual attack. For example, you may have a million Dollar in your Credit Card (Master or Visa Card) but you need to activate it before you can utilize the money.
If you have not got the power, ask Holy Spirit and it shall be given you, if you ask in faith. (Luke 11:13) Use Jesus language if need be to bring your thought in line with Godly principles. Jesus said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind the concerns of God, but merely human concerns.” (Matthew 16:23 NIV) A husband or wife can use the same language to bring your partner to reason in Godly way. Like you say, don’t call the police! Jesus can help us iron this out.
If your marriage is in crisis? Jesus Christ can safe your relationship from marriage wrecker. All you need to do is to apply the following counsels.
Forgive yourself and forgive your marriage partner at all times. Do me and I do you destroy marriages. An eye for eye makes everyone a blind person.
Marriage was not based on competition but on cooperation with your partner. Marriage was not base on equal rights but on equal peace in the home. That means don’t fight for your rights but fight for peace in your home. Plant the seed of honor so that you can reap the fruit of honor. Tackled the problems and not the persons. How to tackle the root course of the problem. For example, A couple in Nigeria was having fundamental family problems. After listen to both side, I discovered that both of them are not the problem but the infracstrucral problems in Nigeria. I want them to switch role for one week. That the wife should travel to the husband worksite at Lekki and come back to Alagbado for one week. I was ready to give pay the husband for keeping his children for one week. The husband complained that his wife always stay late at her tailoring shop. She doesn’t cook at home, she does not fetch water and she must go.
The wife said, “ I have no electricity to do my tailoring job during the day. She has to finish the customer job when the NEPA brings light at night. With 4 Children to care for it is difficult to please her husband. I ask the husband, do you want your wife to stop working? He answered no way, her financial contribution is very important. Then my second questions to the husband was, can you take care of three boys for one week and your wife will go out and come back with money? Ha a ? I go die o the man replied. I can’t take care of them for one day. Then I let them know their problem is not about your wife but the infrastructural problem in the country. Which none of you can control. The fight was over because they know their common enemy. They are living peacefully ever since. Another Family was saved in America:
The man never work because there was no working paper. The wife works two jobs to pay the bills and feed the family. The wife got to a breaking points and asked the husband to leave. Why? The husband does nothing in the house to assist the wife. I was invited: I asked the husband, why are you not helping your wife in the kictchen? He said, “ My father never enter kitchen” I told him, that is your father in the village. This is America you need to assist your wife in the house since you’re not working outside the home. You need to change your mentality. The family are now happy living together. All glory be to Jesus. The Bible says, my people are perish for lack of knowledge”(Hosea 4:6). Many times lack of understanding and pride destabilize many homes.
God is the maker of marriage institution and he has a manual to solve any problems that arise from that institution.
The Power of tongue
The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit. (Proverbs 18:21 NIV) This article will analyze how we can utilize the power of our tongue to benefit ourselves and show how some people have use their tongue to hurt themselves. These are some of good examples of people who use their tongue positively. God told king Hezekiah that he would die from his sickness. But the King says NO! I will not die. As a result, God added 15 more years to his life.(2 King 20:1-6) Another example was when Caleb and Joshua entered the promised land because of what they say with their month, while other people died in the wilderness because of their complaints. God tell them, ‘As surely as I live, declares the Lord, I will do to you the very thing I heard you say: (Numbers 14:28 NIV).
The point is what you say with your tongue to your husband, to your wife and to your children and to all the people around you determine your happiness, your good health, and your progress in life. Use your tongue wisely to protect your family. The power is in your tongue use it to benefit yourself and your loved ones. When God created all thing including you, he declared it very good (Gen. 1:25) Anything that is not good is from the devil.
Stop using demonic negative language to yourself and to others. Any behavior that does not befit the Children of God is from the devil. Any statement that does not honor God is from the Enemy. Uncontrollable anger is a spirit of the demons. Uncharitable comment that degrade others people is from the devil. Unforgiving spirit is from the devil. Pride crashes people and God oppose the haughty spirit. Keeping Grudges can cause psychological and physical diseases such as, Cancer, hypertension, strokes, panic attack and many others. Please avoid keeping grudges at all times. “Drudge is a poison that you keep within yourself, hoping it will kill your enemy” according to Former President of South Africa, Nelson Mandela. The Lord will keep you free from every disease. He will not inflict on you the horrible diseases you knew in Egypt, but he will inflict them on all who hate you. In the mighty name of Jesus. Amen. (Deuteronomy 7:15 NIV) Tame your tongue to do you good. The Bible says, “The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit”.(Proverbs 18:21 NIV) Use your tongue to prophesy what type of family you want. Tell your partner I want to be happy today. Tell your children, I want you to make God and me proud today. Your prophesy will come to pass for you in Mighty Name of Jesus. Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell. (James 3:5, 6 NIV)
Stop judging others, so that they will not judge you. Pray for your enemies so that they may repent. Praise God and people so that you can be praised in return. Apply Bible counsel to yourself.
Say this prayer,
The spirit of Anger is demonic. It is cast out now! In the mighty name of Jesus
Any demonic influence in my life is cast out in The Mighty Name of Jesus.
Any spirit Jealousy is cast out now. In the Mighty Name of Jesus.
The spirit of arrogance is from the devil. Jesus cast it out in my life
My God remove all traces of self-pride in me in the Name of Jesus.
Give me a humble spirit and spirit of modesty in the name of Jesus.
Let my tongue say up-building and uplifting talk in the name of Jesus.
Remember that what you sow is what you will reap.
Say this prayer,
God Let me bear the fruitage of God’s spirit in my life.(Love, Peace, Joy, Patience, Goodness, Kindness, Meekness, Faith and Self-control
Please father give me a forgiving spirit in the mighty name of Jesus
Father removes grudges from me in the Mighty Name of Jesus.
Therefore, you got the power, Use it to protect your family from home wreck.
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